Topic: "boyfriends slacking"

[Scars]

LOL Nakedwookie you....

Scars-- Ummm the story is true. you dont believe it, your loss.  
--NW--

We are talking about when Klarsh decide he would tell us little story about him having his throat slashed, that is why

You sure you dont want to be the singer instead?

said this
Klarsh made up the story to get show sympathy to Archon Kylijae so he could get closer to her. He has not withdrawn his story and still claims it is true.

yup, I wish he would swallow his pride (no pun intended) and say that the story was crap.

[Jester]

Well i thought i'd post an Update...

Perhalps what Eldanish said is very true, i need to really evaulate my relationship and see where it is going. However, as this is my 2n'd relationship this long, and the last one that i ended was a brutal affair, i thought i'd give it a go if you would.

So i had a talk with her about her friends. I told her that i trust her, and i know if she was going to cheat, she'd just tell me straight up, but that frankly any guy i've spoken to thinks it's really odd, and that i'm being a putz even allowing her to see these people anymore. I then told her that i DO trust her, and i understand the relationships with her friends she has are sig. differnt then the relationships with my friends (I'm not sure which is "normal" i can talk to my friends once every 6 months and it doens't matter.. they stop being friends if they ahvnt' seen eachother for a month...but our life styles are VERY VERY differnt, so who am i to judge?) but i just think it's odd.

She informed me that all of her friends are guys (pretty much this IS true) and that all of my friends are female (Again, pretty much true...) and she didnt' have any problem with me spending so much time with my friends, and even though i had a problem, it wouldn't solve anything because then she'd just stop telling me she was spending time with them, and do it anyway. She then informed me that i would do the same if she forbade me to see people as well. but that didn't matter as we both trust eachother, and therefore it's a non-issue.

i informed her that if it was a "non-issue' i wouldn't of brought it up.

She informed me that i can't control her. I said i'm not trying to, i'm just warning you of the consquences of your actions. If you continue to do this, eventually we'll end up breaking up over it, it really bothers me, and frankly it bothers me more you can't see their intentions...

she said "if i was going to cheat, i would. and i'd tell you. So you have nothing to worry about" and that was that.

*Sighs* well its hard to argue with logic like that.

I do love her very much, but i find it very hard to deal with the fact that she really seems that she's got this deathgrip on control over her life, and the idea of me enroaching on it at all is something that could only be equated with the end of the free world as we know it.


So anyway she's here to visit me on the 20th. so i thought i'd do something special for her (nice dinner, candles, ect) While she's down (my roommates will have all left for x-mas) before we drive back home together.

Honestly if i get zero recognition for this (it's fairly inexpensive... well depending on what i make, but takes a ton of effort and planning) but her friends get endless recognition for roses, ect.. it's going to be a VERY VERY serious talk. but i really feel, espeicaly after 3 years, that i owe her the benifit of the doubt.

[Jester]

P.s. A) i would never assult anyone
B) i would never assult one of her friends (I want to go to law school, assult charges would make that very difficult)
C) Assulting people is a very immature way of solving your problems with them
D) If anyone assulted me like that i beat them into a bloody pulp with my beer bottle, as someone already mentioned
E) if i ever did that, the g'f would break up with me so fast it would make your head spin
F) if she ever assulted someone i knew for something as assaine for talking to me, i'd do the same to her.

Peace =0)

[Wiggus]

well seeing as your going to the trouble of cooking what do you intend to cook how much experience you got at cooking i will give you any tips and guidelines i cna to make sure it goes well if you want

[Jester]

I'm thinking about either Snapper (but i don't know how to make any good relishes that go with fish), or chicken.. but i don't know any fancy way of making chicken. I'd love the help though man!! i took some lessions so i'm not a complete food, but they stopped at the "tasteing good" i don't know anything that "looks good".... = /

any advice would be VERY VERY VERY welcome!!

[Scythe]

If you can't make a meal there are other alternatives. Pre-Cooked chickens, boil in the bag rice etc.

[Wiggus]

give me a list of anyfoods you and her dislike or are allergic too and any food you prefer and ill see what recipes i can come up with

[Jester]

nither of us like egg plant...

other than that, you pretty much have infinate freedom!

[Wiggus]

cool i should have something knocked up in a few hours how does honey and mustard chicken sound
ps. does anyone like egg plant its horrible

[Jester]

sounds fantastic.. honey mustard is my favourite condiment.. it can only be better on chicken!!

[Wiggus]

ill have recipe on by end of tomorrow my girlfriend is now insisting i make it for her to 'test it' before i let you make it for your girlfriend

[Jester]

*laughs* well common, you had to of seen that one comming!!!

you can't put effort into somethign that she might like without checking with her first = p

Thanks again man, i can't wait. I hope your g'f likes it!!

[Blood Archon]

I'm glad there is something along the lines of the gals thread!  

this thread cracks me up

[Jester]

yeah, my god wait till after x-mas when i see her every day for 2 weeks. the ranting that will take place. OmG.

*L*
ah, love  

[Jester]

So how'd it go? Is it worth making?

If it is i can't wait to see the recipe!!! i'll test it out on my roommate to make sure i don't scfew it up for the g'f.

[Wiggus]

its lovley i shall post the recipe in the morning as its late and im bloated   she made me cook it again actually i done all the cooking since

[Wiggus]

right sorry mate for not posting this sooner but i kinda fed up with it now my G/F has made me make it 3 times now grrr so you know its nice
first off
get some good bits of chicken fillet breast slice 3/4 cuts into it about half way through rub some whole grain mustard (or english works well if you like it hot) into the gaps place chicken (no more than four bits) into a foil parcel (get foil fold on three corners place food in then seal to make parcel to cook in loosing no flavour) pour in 1.5 glasses of white wine into parcel along with some chopped cherval (note for best results by on the day of cooking best if only few hours before your gonna use) or water cress if you cant find cherval. put in oven on gas mark 5 for 20 mins then turn to 4 for another 10 mins and check (should be done now but if unusually large chicken may need some more time) for the sauce get a carton of single cream add a glass or 1.5 (to taste) 3/4 tablespoons of honey (to taste and warm through on medium heat on the hob (sauce is all done to taste for effect you can add any left over cherval or cress. Right this works well with steamed green beans and mash potatoes really well if you want to go all out tell me and ill tell you how to make duchess potatoes. of course you can serve with any kind of potato you wish really well good luck and sorry for the wait. be sure to let me know how it goes

[Jester]

i'll probably just make some little red potatoes and throw them on the plate, i'm sure that'll be good enough!

man that sounds fantastic. I'll have to give it a test go before i make it for the g'f. If we're still going out by that long, had quite the fight last night. I'm hopeing it was mostly due to stress tho and snapping and what not.

anywayz thanks for the recipe, i'll do it up and i'll let you know how it goes!!

[S.Z.anD. Falrapax]

This is such a weird thread!
*laughs*
Closest thing to a girls thread, as B.A. pointed out...