I might be revealing a bit too much of myself, but I often reflected that conversations with Hymirl were like conversations with ex-lovers.
Something innocuous might come up, we both happen to be in the same room at the same time. A simple disagreement would quickly devolve into name calling, avoidance of a fair or honest recounting, manipulation. Eventually, the accusations of cheating would start to fly, and then tempers would boil over.
Regardless of the cruelty or accuracy of such accusations, it gets old after the 50th time. No matter how good the makeup... uh... arguments were. Not that we argued again, after agreeing to see different avatars. We both knew it was self destructive behaviour.